You have every right to be a victim (what they did to you was wrong and it will always be wrong), but what if I told you that pursuing your “justice” will only keep you trapped in the cycle of abuse?
What I am saying?
I am saying that if you want your life to change, to stop the karmic cycle, you must give it up; you must exchange it for something different, for something new.
So how do you do that?
Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles.
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You don’t “cut” cords to the toxic people and things in your life, you cut the cords to your old self-image of being a victim.
If fact, you cut them at all – you burn them!
If you don’t, those “cords” will seek to “re-attach” themselves to people and things that feed that victim consciousness; it must, it’s in its nature; that consciousness is fighting for its survival.
So how do you “burn” those cords and free yourself from those cycles once and for all?
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Everything changes; all creation comes and goes. However, it seems as though nothing has changed; no matter where you go or whom you are with, you seem to be continuously abandoned, rejected, abused, and constantly failing to realize your dreams.
This lack of change is due to your constant gazing at what is (AKA: the negative cycles in your life), all stemming from what was (AKA: your childhood trauma, AKA: your Inherited negative self-image root).
Remember, what you focus on expands, so you must focus on something new to change your reality, to break those cycles you are experiencing.
But how do you do that when surrounded by “the facts of life?”
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When we want to change our lives and break free from trauma, abusive relationships, and karmic cycles, we often desire it in the face of our current circumstances (which is nearly always NOT what we want.)
So what do we have to do to remain in faith (or even have it to begin with) that The Divine will bring to pass the promise of freedom from those experiences?
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Have you ever noticed how people try to keep you at their level, within their comfort zones, limitations, and beliefs, and how readily we agree with them? Why is that, do you think?
Limiting yourself does not serve the world; there is nothing noble in dimming your inner light so others won’t feel insecure around you – God created you to shine in this world.
So what are you afraid of; why deny your natural self? Is it out of fear of rejection? Guilt or shame?
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If you believe in things like the Law of Attraction or ‘we become what we think about,’ have you ever stopped to wonder why you keep experiencing abusive relationships?
I am here to tell you that unless you get to the root cause of it all, nothing will ever change in your life; no amount of reading, list writing, or other practices will create the change you seek.
You only need to ask yourself, “What do I believe that I deserve to have and experience in this lifetime?”
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If you want to stay out of negative energy, you must stop resisting it and allow it to be.
Once you stop fighting it, you must engage in a desired activity that holds your attention.
When you focus on the desired task, it is not open to other distractions; concentrated thoughts narrow the bandwidth, blocking the negative energy naturally with no effect on your part.
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Why do you feel shitty about the things that other people have done to you?
Why do you feel guilty for making the decision to protect yourself?
Why do you feel bad for getting back up and moving forward?
Those feelings come from the ‘5 stones’ of your negative self-image thrown at you as a child.
How do you stop feeling that way; how do you throw back those stones and set yourself free?
Listen in as I share my discoveries of self-transformation and freedom from the cycles of abuse.
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If you are trying to heal that inner child, AKA: you are trying to get your loved ones to stop rejecting you and take accountability for what they did to you, things aren't going to change.
So what are you supposed to do?
"Pull a Penelope!"
What do I mean by that? Listen in and hear what I have discovered on my journey of carving a path beyond fear and abuse and into the wilderness of self-sovereignty so that you can do it too!
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All you’ve ever been doing is looking for a respectful, loving partner and friend to walk this life with.
As a result, you’ve learned some hard lessons.
The question is, “What will you do with that education?”
It’s time to accept the dream you’ve been dreaming of.
Let go of the past and begin anew.
Don’t fear the unknown; the path can only evolve if you walk it in blind faith.
The only guarantee is that you WILL arrive if you follow the path before you.
Take a deep breath and enjoy the ride!
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You haven't given up yet, so why are you so worried about what other people think about you?
Why are you beating yourself up for the things that other people have done to you?!
In order to be unstuck from your karmic patterns, you have to be Enlightened. But what does that really mean?
Listen in as I share lessons learned, but also a quick way to start breaking your karmic cycles and free yourself to start living the life you were born to live!
In order to free yourself from inherited conditioned patterns of limiting self-belief, worthiness, violence, abuse, and perpetual rejection, you going to have to go on a "bloody rampage of revenge."
How can we use the journey of the 'Yellow-Haired Warrior' in Quentin Tarantino's film, "Kill Bill" as a guide to free ourselves from our personal hells and pasts into a life of our choosing?
Listen in as I share lessons learned on my personal journey of transformation.
You want the truth?
Only LOVE can pass through The Gates of Heaven!
What do I mean by this? Listen in as I share the lessons learned from my transformational journey.
Why do we take on other people's crap when they do us wrong - why do we examine it, investigate it and try to figure out the reason they did it and what we did?!
Why not call it what it is and do what we are supposed to do with crap - flush it down the toilet?
Granted it isn't an easy thing to do, but what you are doing to 'heal' from it is actually keeping you stuck in the cycle of pain and abuse.
Listen in as I share wisdom gained from my personal transformation.
Why are you 'holding on' and not 'letting go' of your past?
Is it because of what others will think, say, or do? Or is it because you think 'this is just how life is' or 'it's always been this way, so it must be the truth?'
Whether you realize it or not, this life is a journey of letting go of 'what was' for 'what is' and 'what will be.' Anything else will keep you stuck in your karma cycle of pain and frustration.
Listen in as I share wisdom learned on this journey of self-transformation.
If you keep focusing on your inner child wounds you are only going to keep yourself stuck in a cycle of the never-ending healing of childhood trauma.
If you believe that what you focus on expands, why do you think it would be any different when you focus on things that happened in the past? (You've been doing that for a while now, right? How's that working out for you?)
Listen in to lessons learned on this journey of self-empowerment, and transformation.
I get it! Everybody is out here telling you to "follow your inner voice," to trust your Divine GPS.
What most people don't know (or do and not telling you) is that your inner voice (AKA: God) is both the light and the dark, both positive and negative energy.
So, if you are holding onto a negative self-image (AKA: your beliefs of failure and impossibility) the Divine will guide you towards that negative fulfillment - it's the Law!
Then what can you do; how do you know if your intuition is guiding you toward failure or success?
Listen is as I share wisdom learned on my journey of transformation.
Have you ever noticed that people can be jealous of you? I am not talking about your gifts or skills, I am talking about your healing journey.
You've done the work to break free from limiting beliefs and karmic patterns, so why are people envious when they should be happy for you?
Listen in to hear lessons learned on this journey of living our lives beyond fear; beyond our past traumas.
The journey out of your personal hell; breaking free from your karmic pattern is tough. And though not everyone makes it, it can be done.
Staying focused on your path out of darkness is critical, but there will be tests along the way that will provoke you to give up.
How do you cross the threshold of old beliefs into a state of joy and peace; Heaven consciousness?
Listen in for lessons learned on this journey of transformation.
Why do we do it? Why do we stay loyal to those who have clearly chosen to betray us; why do we keep coming back for more abuse?
And when we do walk away, why do we feel guilty for standing up for ourselves, for choosing ourselves over others' BS that they try to impose upon us?
Listen in as I share lessons learned about the emotional ties that bind us to the cycles of abuse.
You've been through a lot; people have done some terrible things to you - I get it!
But that isn't a good enough reason to stay down and accept life as it seems at this moment. And though you may not be able to see it at the moment, if you begin today to have the courage to get up and take tiny steps forward toward a brighter future, it will come to pass even quicker than you realize.
Listen in as I share lessons on never giving up.
There's only one way to release yourself, to break free from toxic cycles and individuals - you have to release your addiction to co-dependency.
It's easier said than done, but the truth is it can be done, and here is how.
Listen in to lessons learned about letting go of the past, and I mean all of your past.
People (family, friends, lovers, and society) tell you who you are, what you are capable of, and what you are worthy of; they attach labels to you, and they expect you to be a certain way.
And if you are not careful, you might just end up believing them and lose control of your life; you'll end up being stuck in a cycle of abuse and neglect.
But how do you reject those labels; how do you live your life according to your own self-definition?
Listen in as I share lessons learned about owning your self-identity: AKA, your life!
Feel like you're not getting anywhere; like everything you are doing isn't making a difference?
Breaking away from the old, toxic relationships, families, friends, and even society, is a very hard thing to do - most people will never do it, so isn't it time to give yourself some credit?! Isn't it time you stop beating yourself up for always getting back up and trying to move forward?
Listen in as I share lessons learned about leaving it all behind, without guilt, shame, or regrets.
It is hard to end toxic relationships, especially romantic ones. There is so much involved. Everything from the karmic family patterns and cycles to childhood traumas. Not to mention all of the guilt and shame of just being yourself.
But there is hope; there is a way out. However, are you willing to face and give up the very thing that keeps you stuck?
Listen in as I share lessons learned about being free and unshakably self-confident.