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Sep 24, 2023

What are you doing with your time?

Spending it? (which, in reality, is wasting it.) Or are you investing it?

I understand the initial engagement is uneasy, but I also know the flow takes over once engaged.

So, how do you get yourself to “engage” with the Divine creative flow? Make yourself so bored you crave the relief of creativity.

What do I mean, make yourself bored? Start observing your current behaviors of procrastination.

Now, I have a different point of view on what procreation is. Hint: it isn’t something you do to avoid engaging in an activity.

Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you.

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Sep 17, 2023

If today makes your tomorrow, hadn’t you switched your focus from ‘past and future’ to ‘now,’ should you not stop and observe what you are thinking and doing, the choices you are making right now?

So how do you do that?

Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you.

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 Link to Deep Hidden Meaning Show:

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Sep 11, 2023

Who influences your thoughts about what is possible for you and your life? Do you use the opinions of others to put a limit on your dreams?

What is done is done; the present moment is old news; it is old thoughts made manifest; make peace with it.

And then let us focus on creating a new tomorrow but choosing carefully our thoughts and actions today.

Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you.

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Sep 3, 2023

Remembering that we can achieve greatness if we take ownership of our actions and live in the present moment is crucial. 

We must stop shifting the blame to external factors when things go wrong and instead focus on our unique talents.

It takes courage and passion to pursue our dreams and take risks, but the rewards are immeasurable. We must actively participate in life to discover our talents and find true joy in aligned purpose.

Our talents shine in all their magnificent details in those moments, and we can live a fulfilling and purposeful life.

Let us embrace risk, curiosity, passion, and love to unlock our full potential and achieve greatness.

Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you.

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Aug 27, 2023

How do you transmute negative experiences, so you don’t stay stuck in trauma?

How do you live your life free from having to please people in order to “earn” their love?

Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you.

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Aug 24, 2023

The past is the past, and the new is here now, waiting for you to create it. So, what are you creating?

Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you.

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Aug 6, 2023

Love is letting go of all fear. The fear of failure, rejection, and even the fear of releasing one’s false God – the martyr, the victim self-image that the world has told us we are.

Love is to know who you are and not to be afraid of it.

Love is to turn your back on the world and all of its lies. To throw off all of the mantles we have acquired on our journies and to be what we are – despite the objections, complaints, and attempts to tear us down from others.

The foolish, ignorant, and fearful will tell you this is wrong. These individuals will say to you are made of stone, that you are cold and bitter. But be aware and observe them closely, for you will see that they are full of fear, afraid to release their death grip on the rock of fear, that they are scared to be themselves.

Remember, your life belongs to you; it is a gift from God, and “true love” would understand and encourage this truth, for they would want the same thing for themselves.

So, as hard as it might be, as afraid as you may be, take a deep breath, let go of your fears and your past, and release into the warm, fluid stream of love; release into the only actual reality and watch the miracle of transformation begin.

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles.

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Jul 30, 2023

You have waited long enough for others to do right by you, to take accountability for what they have done to you, so you can live your life, and be who you know you’re supposed to be.

You also cannot set yourself free by trying to undo what has already happened.

You can only break the cycle of trauma and pain, of karma, by going through, by going forward, by completely the circle of the story of your life, of who you are.

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles.

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Jul 23, 2023

You have every right to be a victim (what they did to you was wrong and it will always be wrong), but what if I told you that pursuing your “justice” will only keep you trapped in the cycle of abuse?

What I am saying?

I am saying that if you want your life to change, to stop the karmic cycle, you must give it up; you must exchange it for something different, for something new.

So how do you do that?

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles.

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Jul 16, 2023

You don’t “cut” cords to the toxic people and things in your life, you cut the cords to your old self-image of being a victim.

If fact, you cut them at all – you burn them!

If you don’t, those “cords” will seek to “re-attach” themselves to people and things that feed that victim consciousness; it must, it’s in its nature; that consciousness is fighting for its survival.

So how do you “burn” those cords and free yourself from those cycles once and for all?

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles.

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Jul 9, 2023

Everything changes; all creation comes and goes. However, it seems as though nothing has changed; no matter where you go or whom you are with, you seem to be continuously abandoned, rejected, abused, and constantly failing to realize your dreams.

This lack of change is due to your constant gazing at what is (AKA: the negative cycles in your life), all stemming from what was (AKA: your childhood trauma, AKA: your Inherited negative self-image root).

Remember, what you focus on expands, so you must focus on something new to change your reality, to break those cycles you are experiencing.

But how do you do that when surrounded by “the facts of life?”

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of a genuinely free of those cycles.

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Jul 2, 2023

When we want to change our lives and break free from trauma, abusive relationships, and karmic cycles, we often desire it in the face of our current circumstances (which is nearly always NOT what we want.)

So what do we have to do to remain in faith (or even have it to begin with) that The Divine will bring to pass the promise of freedom from those experiences?

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles.

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Jun 25, 2023

Have you ever noticed how people try to keep you at their level, within their comfort zones, limitations, and beliefs, and how readily we agree with them? Why is that, do you think?

Limiting yourself does not serve the world; there is nothing noble in dimming your inner light so others won’t feel insecure around you – God created you to shine in this world.

So what are you afraid of; why deny your natural self? Is it out of fear of rejection? Guilt or shame?

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse.

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Jun 18, 2023

If you believe in things like the Law of Attraction or ‘we become what we think about,’ have you ever stopped to wonder why you keep experiencing abusive relationships?

I am here to tell you that unless you get to the root cause of it all, nothing will ever change in your life; no amount of reading, list writing, or other practices will create the change you seek.

You only need to ask yourself, “What do I believe that I deserve to have and experience in this lifetime?”

Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse.

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Jun 11, 2023

If you want to stay out of negative energy, you must stop resisting it and allow it to be.

Once you stop fighting it, you must engage in a desired activity that holds your attention.

When you focus on the desired task, it is not open to other distractions; concentrated thoughts narrow the bandwidth, blocking the negative energy naturally with no effect on your part.

Listen in to learn more.

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Jun 4, 2023

Why do you feel shitty about the things that other people have done to you?

Why do you feel guilty for making the decision to protect yourself?

Why do you feel bad for getting back up and moving forward?

Those feelings come from the ‘5 stones’  of your negative self-image thrown at you as a child.

How do you stop feeling that way; how do you throw back those stones and set yourself free?

Listen in as I share my discoveries of self-transformation and freedom from the cycles of abuse.

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May 30, 2023

If you are trying to heal that inner child, AKA: you are trying to get your loved ones to stop rejecting you and take accountability for what they did to you, things aren't going to change.

So what are you supposed to do?

"Pull a Penelope!"

What do I mean by that? Listen in and hear what I have discovered on my journey of carving a path beyond fear and abuse and into the wilderness of self-sovereignty so that you can do it too!

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May 28, 2023

All you’ve ever been doing is looking for a respectful, loving partner and friend to walk this life with.

As a result, you’ve learned some hard lessons.

The question is, “What will you do with that education?”

It’s time to accept the dream you’ve been dreaming of.

Let go of the past and begin anew.

Don’t fear the unknown; the path can only evolve if you walk it in blind faith. 

The only guarantee is that you WILL arrive if you follow the path before you. 

Take a deep breath and enjoy the ride!

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May 21, 2023

You haven't given up yet, so why are you so worried about what other people think about you?

Why are you beating yourself up for the things that other people have done to you?!

In order to be unstuck from your karmic patterns, you have to be Enlightened. But what does that really mean?

Listen in as I share lessons learned, but also a quick way to start breaking your karmic cycles and free yourself to start living the life you were born to live!

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May 14, 2023

In order to free yourself from inherited conditioned patterns of limiting self-belief, worthiness, violence, abuse, and perpetual rejection, you going to have to go on a "bloody rampage of revenge."

How can we use the journey of the 'Yellow-Haired Warrior' in Quentin Tarantino's film, "Kill Bill" as a guide to free ourselves from our personal hells and pasts into a life of our choosing?

Listen in as I share lessons learned on my personal journey of transformation. 

May 7, 2023

You want the truth? 

Only LOVE can pass through The Gates of Heaven! 

What do I mean by this? Listen in as I share the lessons learned from my transformational journey. 

Apr 30, 2023

Why do we take on other people's crap when they do us wrong - why do we examine it, investigate it and try to figure out the reason they did it and what we did?!

Why not call it what it is and do what we are supposed to do with crap - flush it down the toilet?

Granted it isn't an easy thing to do, but what you are doing to 'heal' from it is actually keeping you stuck in the cycle of pain and abuse.

Listen in as I share wisdom gained from my personal transformation. 

Apr 23, 2023

Why are you 'holding on' and not 'letting go' of your past?

Is it because of what others will think, say, or do? Or is it because you think 'this is just how life is' or 'it's always been this way, so it must be the truth?'

Whether you realize it or not, this life is a journey of letting go of 'what was' for 'what is' and 'what will be.' Anything else will keep you stuck in your karma cycle of pain and frustration.

Listen in as I share wisdom learned on this journey of self-transformation. 

Apr 16, 2023

If you keep focusing on your inner child wounds you are only going to keep yourself stuck in a cycle of the never-ending healing of childhood trauma. 

If you believe that what you focus on expands, why do you think it would be any different when you focus on things that happened in the past? (You've been doing that for a while now, right? How's that working out for you?)

Listen in to lessons learned on this journey of self-empowerment, and transformation. 

 

 

 

 

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